I've recently fully realized how to separate two essential things: feeling sexy and enjoying sex. In the last three years, I've had the most amazing sexual awakening; being away from home helped me discover this incredible pleasure of life. As a result, I uncharged myself of all the stereotypes, misconceptions, and fears surrounding sex.

Since I grew up in a considerably conservative society where you are judged for enjoying sex -especially when you are a woman- I felt guilty when I wanted to discover sex.

If you kissed a boy (or girl) and you liked it, you automatically classified as a whore- whether you liked it or not. People made this judgment without knowledge, mostly based on misconceptions transmitted by society or their home life. And that isn't very nice because I loved hooking up with a lot of guys. I truly enjoyed kissing boys, discovering them, feeling that little moment of electricity when your bodies are close, and wanting more, wanting to touch, feel the other person's heat against your body, and share an incredible, passionate moment: I love that feeling; it is beautiful. But as a young girl, I grew up wanting to discover my sexuality but was always afraid of being judged, used, or hurt.

Up until I turned 23, I felt guilty whenever that feeling overcame my body, so moving to Paris changed my life.

For the first time, I experienced sex, my body, and boys without an ounce of guilt.

I discovered two incredible and beautiful things: passionate sex and French lovers. That sexual awakening led me to find myself, my body, what felt good and what didn't. Eventually, I re-discovered my body and let go of many insecurities.

I started feeling sexy because I started enjoying my body in ways I didn't think were possible without guilt or regret.

I started wearing lingerie that made me feel sexy; I started walking down the street, swinging my hips and enjoying some sexy stares. Hell, I even started touching myself without feeling I was doing something wrong. And I've loved every single moment of it. The good experiences and the bad, the ups and downs, the good sex and the terrible sex, because it's brought me here. It's got me to a moment in my life where I allow myself to enjoy and share these experiences. To inspire people to love themselves but also enjoy pleasure.

I've wanted to share some of my sexy/sex life experiences, but I've been too afraid to be judged, and I don't even know by whom. I firmly believe that when something inspires you, and you have the platform and courage to talk about it and break down walls and taboos, you are responsible for sharing such experiences, always feeling comfortable and doing it from a place of love for yourself and others.

I do want to specify-and I will keep doing it as long as it takes-that enjoying sex and talking about it does not make you a whore, a bad person, a player, or whatever negative way you use to call yourself. On the contrary, enjoying sex is incredible; it is one of life's greatest pleasures, and bringing down those walls of judgment and taboo will help you enjoy it way more and experience life with more sexiness, spicy, loving, and beautiful moments.

So this is it; from now on, there is going to be a bit more sexy and sex in this blog, and it will be fun, sexy and spicy.

With much love, as always,

Lo